Think about your values, and what's important to you.

What kind of personal care would you want-or not want-to receive if you were not capable of deciding for yourself? Personal care does not deal with financial matters, but rather with the medical treatment you receive, your nutrition and hygiene, where you live and with whom, and your personal safety.

Consult people you trust who can provide guidance.

What are the legal aspects of advance care planning? How does your faith influence your decision? What decisions are most likely to be needed given your health? Your doctor, lawyer and/or faith leader may be able to give you some information to help you make your advance care plans.

Decide on and appoint a substitute decision-maker.

Who would you want to make decisions for you if you were not capable? You can choose one or more people to act for you, but make sure that they understand their job and are willing to accept responsibility for carrying out your wishes.

Make your choices clear to others.

How can your substitute decision-maker make the same choices that you would make for yourself in whatever situations arise? You need to communicate your care wishes clearly, while you are capable, to your substitute decision-maker as well as to your family, friends and health care providers, as you see fit.You and your substitute decision-maker may find it helpful if you write down your wishes, but you do not have to do this.

Give your substitute decision-maker the power to act on your behalf.

How can your substitute decision-maker make personal care decisions on your behalf? You need to do two things: tell them your care wishes, and appoint them to act as your substitute decision-maker through a Power of Attorney for Personal Care. A Power of Attorney for Personal Care must be in writing, signed and dated by you, and witnessed by two people.